Hey ,
Day before I saw Tarre Zammen Par for the second time.
It a beautiful movie and everyone must watch.
It about how parents fail to exactly understand a child ( His qualities and lacking things ) and pressurize him to compete with the crowd ( The rat race )
On similar notes when we grow up it does not change much.
The only thing changes is the parents don’t pressurize us,
We split up in two different roles (The pressurizing parent and the suppressed and
Misunderstood child).
We set goals for ourselves not because we want to achieve them because others around us are achieving them.
And we think we also need to otherwise we are not capable enough.
But as the movie says every child is special so are we .
Special and different from others.
If one has found that specialty in oneself great, if not keep looking till you find.
We should not judge ourselves based on others expectations of us or others achievements.
We should judge ourselves based on our expectation and our previous achievements .
Have a great day
1 comment:
exactly .
It should not depend on what others are achieving .
moreover , people think that success is something that is defined by other people. They think as if it is defined in some law .
But the definition of SUCCESS is different for each and every person. each person should have the fixed goal and should move to achieve that . success doesnt mean only having his/her name in some world records . for some person , it may be getting fat or for other it may be getting thin .
so identify your own success definition and decide your path towards the goal. traversing that path will be much easier and faster.just dont take the the path what others have decided for you .
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